January 16, 2009 by T Love.

So since the break up, especially in the last 3 weeks, I have met a few women. Last night, I hung out with a women I met a few weeks ago. She’s short & petite, really cute, and fun to be around. She really likes me and I like her. I may ask her out soon.

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January 16, 2009 by T Love.

Well, this may be the last post concerning Kathy and I. In late Dec, I gave up any hope of getting back together with Kathy. I have my reasons. Giving up any hope of rekindling our relationship again was a major pivotol point in my recovery. The extra time off of work accelerated my healing process. I have also met some women, made some new friends, and bought some stuff & did stuff for me…which were all contributing factors to my rapid recovery.

Some of you guys have asked me “Well, if she said she wanted you back, what would you say”. I would say “No”. Don’t get me wrong….I would have been satisfied with Marrying Kathy, starting a family, and growing old with her. But since the breakup, I realize that she wasn’t giving me what I wanted or needed from her and for our relationship. I realize that there are women out there who can give me what I am seeking and who are ready for a commitment to me, a relationship, and more.

Kathy and I do sporadically keep in touch. I don’t know if we are really friends or not. It is what it is and Life goes on. I have moved on!

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January 16, 2009 by T Love.

I took full advantage of my 2 week break from work. My mind is more focused and I’m pretty much back to my old self. It sucked that I lost 2 weeks of pay, but it sure did help in my recovery.

My vacation included Jacksonville & Tampa FL and a 5 day trip to D.C. Lots of fun in each city and many great memories. D.C. was unbelievable and amazing. Unfortunately, I can’t really say all of what went on up there. lol.

I am back to work in Daytona again. However, I am no longer full time. I have been reduced to 3 shifts per week - down from 5. I will have to crunch some numbers, but it appears I will barely be able to survive on this. Just like the vacation time, I will be taking full advantage of my extra days off, believe me. Money isn’t everything guys. As long as I can pay my bills and still be able to do stuff for me such as travel, make purchases, and have fun - thats a-ok with me.

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